Becoming Attractive to Your Ideal Partner to Create an Amazing Relationship

This post was written by CoachJulieRN on October 26, 2009
Posted Under: Create Amazing Relationships

You are envisioning what you want in your relationship including how you want to feel. You have identified qualities you seek in your ideal partner as well as what qualities your partner will look for in you. You may even be dating and looking for your mate. This is all great!

You don’t know where you’ll find your ideal partner. You don’t know when. But in the meantime, while you are looking, you can work on becoming more attractive so that he or she can simply walk right into your life and you’ll be ready.

Look at your list of what you want to become in order to participate in your AMAZING RELATIONSHIP and determine which characteristics you need to develop and invite into your life.

This is where your power lives – in becoming the kind of person YOU WANT TO BE while you are looking for the one to help turn your vision into reality.

Do you need to improve your self-esteem or confidence? Perhaps you need to learn to please yourself rather than your partner. Perhaps you fear that you will lose yourself as you have in previous relationships. Do you need to learn to express yourself, communicate more effectively, or become a better listener?

NOW is the time to deal with your stuff and work on your self-improvement. You need to be ready. You need to be prepared for when the opportunity presents itself. What do you need to do to prepare yourself?

Start working on yourself TODAY. Don’t wait! Your ideal partner is looking for you! You need to be ready when they walk into your life!

I remember when I was dating. I kept coming back to my lists and adding to them. When I would meet someone, I would see what I liked and admired and put those on my list. I would also notice those things that weren’t quite right for me and ask what I would like instead. Then I would add those things to my list.

I also believed that it would be easy to find someone to share my life with. I BELIEVED it would be EASY – that he would simply walk into my life.

AND HE DID! He literally rang my doorbell one night. He had been a neighbor and was in the area visiting a friend. He stopped by. We had lunch a few days later and this began a love affair that has become an AMAZING RELATIONSHIP (including a blended family).

I had spent years becoming the kind of person who would be ready for this kind of relationship – what I refer to as “A woman of substance”. I knew I wanted something different from my first marriage (which ended in an amicable divorce) but I had few roles models. I needed to create something new and I knew that meant that I needed to change – to be different. So I worked on me.

We never stop working on ourselves – we are always ‘works in progress’. But if you are working on something, your energy will shift and you will become more attractive – vibrating at a new level.

This is the power of the Law of Attraction.

What are some of the qualities you need to work on? Identify those. Define what kind of person you want to become. Keep envisioning what you want in your AMAZING RELATIONSHIP because even when you find your ideal partner, this AMAZING RELATIONSHIP doesn’t just happen.

You need to create it each and every day through your actions and by choosing how you want to feel.

Please share your comments below. Good luck in finding your ideal partner! I believe it’s possible if you want it badly enough. YOUneed to believe it yourself.