http://nurturingyoursuccessblog.com/eliminating-overwhelm-part-vi-what%e2%80%99s-on-your-plate-and-why-are-you-doing-it/ Thu, 19 Jan 2012 14:18:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://nurturingyoursuccessblog.com/eliminating-overwhelm-part-vi-what%e2%80%99s-on-your-plate-and-why-are-you-doing-it/comment-page-1/#comment-117 Coach Julie Thu, 14 May 2009 12:28:11 +0000 http://nurturingyoursuccessblog.com/?p=544#comment-117 Hi Stefanie! Thanks for sharing! This is very true. Is this happening in your life? What is your experience? It's important that we look at ourselves and why we do what we do. If it's happening TO US, then there are opportunities for us to extend boundaries. We might even consider why other people feel the need to take on our problems; are we relying on others too much? Do we not trust ourselves? If we are doing it TO OTHERS, then we must learn to separate ourselves, focus on our own stuff, and give others permission to take responsibility for their own stuff. This will bring us more peace and increase the time we have for ourselves. Change is possible... Yours truly, Coach Julie Hi Stefanie! Thanks for sharing! This is very true. Is this happening in your life? What is your experience?
It’s important that we look at ourselves and why we do what we do. If it’s happening TO US, then there are opportunities for us to extend boundaries. We might even consider why other people feel the need to take on our problems; are we relying on others too much? Do we not trust ourselves?
If we are doing it TO OTHERS, then we must learn to separate ourselves, focus on our own stuff, and give others permission to take responsibility for their own stuff. This will bring us more peace and increase the time we have for ourselves. Change is possible…
Yours truly, Coach Julie

]]> http://nurturingyoursuccessblog.com/eliminating-overwhelm-part-vi-what%e2%80%99s-on-your-plate-and-why-are-you-doing-it/comment-page-1/#comment-115 Stefanie Hartman Thu, 14 May 2009 11:53:56 +0000 http://nurturingyoursuccessblog.com/?p=544#comment-115 Some people tend to get too involved in other people's problems. They find it tough to separate their problems and someone else to the point that they become just as stressed hearing about someone else problem as if it was their own. Separation needs to be made. Some people tend to get too involved in other people’s problems. They find it tough to separate their problems and someone else to the point that they become just as stressed hearing about someone else problem as if it was their own. Separation needs to be made.

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