Sue felt the tug in her body telling her that this wasn’t right but she ignored it – for years. And now, she is paying the price.
When we discussed the issue, which happened to be about her teeth, Sue realized several times in her life listening to the advice of so-called “experts” and feeling this [...]
Only three, you ask? Well, I could make up more if you like but, really, it’s very simple. We just tend to make life hard for ourselves.
Limiting beliefs are out-dated and hurtful habits of thought that are often unknown to you. The impact of them, however, causes your discomfort and discontent. Because they are self-imposed, [...]
Where are you trying to prove yourself?
How much time and energy are you spending trying to see your own personal value through the eyes and acknowledgements of others?
In your struggle to find your personal value, do you ever get it? Do you ever get the approval you seek?
And when you do, how does it feel? [...]
How often during your day do you think of yourself when speaking with others?
It might sound like this:
“I wouldn’t have thought of that.
“Would I do something like that?
“What would I do…?
“I can do better than that.
“How would I handle that?”
It’s all about YOU YOU YOU.
Throughout your day, you evaluate YOU against the actions of others [...]
As humans we like to complicate matters.
We drift away from ourselves only to find our way home. We search far and wide for riches and fame only to discover that what we seek – what we need more than anything else in the whole wide world – is to be loved and cared for. To [...]
Do you pretend to be happy? To like someone? To care? To be smart?
Do you pretend to have money? To be more successful than you are? To be happy in your relationship? Or your work?
Pretending is hard on you because in your pretension, you lie to yourself. You feel like a fraud. And this makes [...]
I received an incredible gift this morning. One of the quotes from the E-Book of Wisdom states:
“You cannot know the impact you make or what you mean in the lives of others unless they tell you.”
I have been in business now – writing articles, coaching – for eight years. With the coaching, I receive much [...]
Do you believe that as a human being you are wonderful, amazing and infinitely valuable?
Do you believe that what you do adds value to the world and that whatever you do is enough?
Are you able to see how accomplished you are and appreciate how much you have achieved in your life already?
Lately, I have been [...]
What is the greatest gift?
Whitney Houston sang a song about the greatest gift. She said it was “love”.
Others claim the greatest gift is “life” or that the greatest gift is the “present” – this very moment in time.
These are all true. You could not experience love if you are not fully present to the [...]
As a little girl, I was introduced to this poem written by Charles Finn in 1966. I wrote it down in my little diary of poems. It crossed my desk again recently. It still brings me to tears - it is me.
We all have walls behind which we hide the best of ourselves. We are scared [...]