Why Change Now? Why Be Thin?

This post was written by Julie Donley RN on July 1, 2010
Posted Under: Make Change EASY

I have had such an amazing response from my video and mission to lose weight! It is wonderful that so many of you want to join me in your OWN quest. It’s very exciting!

To begin, you MUST ask yourself – and answer – this question:

WHY?

Why do you want to embark upon this change?

Perhaps for you it’s not weight; perhaps you have a different change you’d like to make. That’s great. You have to know why you want to do this.

Change is not easy. There has to be a really good reason for rocking your world; so big, in fact, that it provides you with the motivation you need to sustain you along the way.

Why do you want this? Why is this important to you?

Be honest with yourself. If you make this change, what will it do for you and for your life? How will it ADD VALUE to you?

Is this important enough that you are willing to do whatever it takes to achieve the results you seek?

You have to make the change for YOU: not for your kids, or your boss, or your spouse. For YOU.

It cannot be a SHOULD, something you should do because…(fill in the blank here). If you should do it but you don’t want to, you will sabotage your efforts and fail. Get honest with yourself and give up on SHOULDS. Focus instead on getting READY.

There has to be a reason and it has to be a good one. It can be simple, like your health. It need not be complicated or fancy. But it needs to be a strong motivator to break through the habits that you have now, the habits that will fight to keep you doing things the way you have been for so long.

Why is this important to you NOW? You may hold onto goals from when you were younger, still thinking you want that someday. Is today the day or is the goal outdated? Is it REALLY something you want for yourself NOW? And is NOW the right time to embark upon this change?

When you know why this change is important, then this is your purpose statement, the reason that makes accomplishing this change meaningful and powerful. With this purpose statement, you increase your confidence and are ready to take the next step.

I’d love to hear your reason for wanting your change. Please comment below – share about the change you want to make and WHY. Why is this important to you at this time in your life?

I’ll share mine – I am losing 50 pounds because this is one area of my life in which I have never felt in control. I want some control. I also want to take charge NOW because there is no later. If I wait it will only get harder, not only to lose weight, but to get in shape. I want to be healthy for the rest of my life. I want to be my best.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Your partner for success,

Coach Julie, RN ~ Nurturing Your Success

PS – Not sure your reason for change is strong enough to go the distance? Arrange a free 30-minute coaching session to see how coaching with me can help you succeed!

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Do what you can do today.

#1 
Written By Success Coaching on July 1st, 2010 @ 6:25 pm

Hi Julie

I wanna tell you how extremely inspiring, stumbling upon your
site had been for me.

I’ve always wanted to lose weight. I even bought clothing that i would
like to wear when I’m thinner. 15 years have passed of me telling myself that next year will be the year i achieve this goal. Only to spend every Christmas uncomfortably hot in the South African heat having put on more weight than the year before.I always told myself i wasn’t “that fat” and ate without caution.

I’ve been through a messy divorce and experienced deep depression 4
years ago. With that my self confidence depleted and reality hit that i am “that fat” blamed myself for being a loser. I’ve been blessed with a beautiful baby and a new gorgeous husband but even that doesn’t fill the deep crevice which is my self esteem.

Your statement that this change mite have been years in the making, made me realize that I’ve been preparing for this for years and that i’m not a total loser, the time just wasn’t rite but it is now.

I’m joining weight watchers tomorrow and I’m doing it with my head held high. I’ts because of your inspiration.

Thank you.

#2 
Written By Pinky on July 5th, 2010 @ 7:01 am

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